My name is Cheryl, and I live in the Central Valley of California. I am the mother of one son with severe Tourette Syndrome and another with moderate to severe OCD. They are both now in their late 20s but were diagnosed in fourth and sixth grades, respectively.
My husband and I and our sons have survived the journey with many bumps and bruises along the way…but we did survive and even thrive, even though it wasn’t the journey we expected.
All in all, I believe we raised both of our sons to talk intelligently about their conditions to others (especially authority figures who were always questioning them), have compassion for others with differences (both will take the side of an ‘underdog’ in a heartbeat), and know that home is always a safe place for their tics and routines (despite about a year of all of us wearing ear plugs because of a screaming tic phase. :)
Our youngest with TS still lives with us, but he is working part-time and has a girlfriend. I must say that during junior high and high school, we never thought things would improve for him! There are still struggles with several long-time tics (including screaming and coprolalia) and he has what I call “add-ons,” such as mood fluctuation, irritability and depression. But he is doing remarkably well for the places he’s been! Continue reading
